To start out I'm just getting into bdsm. I've got toys and have been reading the books for to long. What they alone do to me is mind blowing. I'm very strong willed and need to be broken for my own good (I think). I am a full time Paramedic and love my job. In this small town in the Bible belt, I find myself being in charge to often and would enjoy a break. So here it goes to the next step.