Well about me... although I can't live the life style 24/7, as much as I would like to, I get out when I can. I love being able to have a career and a family just like the rest of the vanilla public, and be dominate in my every day life, yet by nights and weekends can relax and escape in to a wonderful subspace of being a submissive. It brings a nice balance to my life. Anything sexual or fetish or kink is my zen because to me in that moment in time nothing else matters to me except who i'm with and what scene i'm in, I leave the vanilla public, all worries and problems behind. Everyone needs a break once in a while.