Thank you for your thoughts Numinosity, I can see where you are coming from, and it makes sense that I should try harder to express this to her. Last time we had talked about something of this nature she exploded on me and did not talk to me for 3 days so I have stayed away from the subject due to that. Maybe its time to readdress it as that was many years ago. I'm just so tired of suppressing a part of me that I really shouldn't have to.

Again thank you for your thoughts I will think on what you have said.