Do you cheat?

[Warbaby1943]

ahh you and i both...i'm so super honest, it always gets me into trouble..and no i haven't cheated lately...with earlier online Masters i did..hell i had one online Master who ordered me to go walk in the park and pick up a stranger and bring him/her back for a blowjob if a male..and some sort of sex if a female..and allowing them to tie me up..i was like uh sure..i'll do that...i didn't do it..but damn i wrote a fantastic email describing everything i and the female did while back at my house..hehe..he got soo damn excited..hehe..

seriously isn't it a Dom/Master's responsibility to protect his sub/slave? damn..i could have gotten killed..or something..that was way back a few years ago when i really was naive about this stuff..

isabeau6

God glad you didn't do it and yes it is a Dom's responsibility to protect his sub. You should never have been asked to do anything so dangerous in the first place. It is great that you had the common sense to not do it.

My only question would be, since the sub still has rights and especially to protect herself against harm, why in the world didn't you just tell him there was no way in hell you would do anything that could so seriously put you in harms' way? If he cared at all for you he certainly would have understood.

[isabeau6]

God glad you didn't do it and yes it is a Dom's responsibility to protect his sub. You should never have been asked to do anything so dangerous in the first place. It is great that you had the common sense to not do it.

My only question would be, since the sub still has rights and especially to protect herself against harm, why in the world didn't you just tell him there was no way in hell you would do anything that could so seriously put you in harms' way? If he cared at all for you he certainly would have understood.

well for one thing he was my very first online Master..and he said i had no rights..i would try to argue that point with him, only to get punished..i was an object to him..a pet if you will...and remember i was horribly new..as i learned i would try and tell him the rules..he said rules weren't for him and myself.. i don't know if he cared for me or not..he never allowed me to show my personality to him..i balked at beastiality however and water sports..but he would still try to talk me into that as well..he took advantage of the fact i was and am still to a degree very naive..

isabeau6

[Warbaby1943]

well for one thing he was my very first online Master..and he said i had no rights..i would try to argue that point with him, only to get punished..i was an object to him..a pet if you will...and remember i was horribly new..as i learned i would try and tell him the rules..he said rules weren't for him and myself.. i don't know if he cared for me or not..he never allowed me to show my personality to him..i balked at beastiality however and water sports..but he would still try to talk me into that as well..he took advantage of the fact i was and am still to a degree very naive..

isabeau6

I hope you know I was not criticizing you, I was just stating how I look at things and what I have learned in my time here. You do have rights always as far as I would be concerned and your safety should be of utmost importance to any Dom worth his salt; IMO.

Hopefully you know to run from any such person in the future unless you want to give up all your rights and that is for you to decide. Otherwise good communication and a declaration of boundaries not to be crossed is a great idea. As you grow to trust someone those boundaries can at any time be expanded but do keep your safety in mind. Just my opinion again.

[isabeau6]

I hope you know I was not criticizing you, I was just stating how I look at things and what I have learned in my time here. You do have rights always as far as I would be concerned and your safety should be of utmost importance to any Dom worth his salt; IMO.

Hopefully you know to run from any such person in the future unless you want to give up all your rights and that is for you to decide. Otherwise good communication and a declaration of boundaries not to be crossed is a great idea. As you grow to trust someone those boundaries can at any time be expanded but do keep your safety in mind. Just my opinion again.

o no i didn't think you were criticizing me at all..i realize now that he was not a Dom of any shape or form..and yet he told me he had owned real life slaves..and was looking for me to become one next..also bragged that he sent his last slave off to marry or something, her career interfered and she married and moved away..but would call him and say he still was the best at sex....yea right...

i will keep my safety in mind thank you..and i have learned that of course i have rights...even as a slave i have rights..and respect also..which he was never showing me..thanks for your opinion....i can use all the help i can get...i do believe the Master i have now is a true Dom...

isabeau6