Quote Originally Posted by Spitman
This is like asking which kind of execution you would rather have, because either answer would involve something that would feel like an amputation......
Now that's an interesting thought.....not being a switch myself (at this point anyway) I hadn't thought of it in those terms.....I guess that's because so far the switches that I have known have told me they have a "leaning" towards one side of the other....I have had many switch friends tell me they would rather be just a sub....not many that have said they would rather just be Dom/me though....and I have had a few female Domme friends that have told me that they started as a sub and only became a Domme because they had partners that wanted to be dominated....I guess that is part of where this question of mine originated

Thank you Spitman for helping me to get a different view

~~nibbles~~