common traits

[tydnchaynz{NSXX}]

how lovely.....again, i'm not the only one *dancin'*

Yes there is the obsession with cleaning
Crafty
cannot stand excess body hair
i have a routine, but i can adapt when necessary
fiery temper.......although i have a very long fuse
very hurt by criticism
however, the biggest thing i note is the almost obsessive urge to please those around me, often to the point of neglecting my own needs. this of course creates extremely spoiled friends, children, partners, etc...hehehehe
difficulty disciplining children, check
perfectionist, check


and here's one that i haven't read yet, although in speaking with other submissives, i've found another trait seems to be common.....a history of physical and/or sexual abuse at a young age.....and before anyone blasts me for that, please understand it is MY experience, and i am NOT saying that everyone has experienced it.

thanks for the great thread
Tyd

[gemmy]

how lovely.....again, i'm not the only one *dancin'*

Yes there is the obsession with cleaning
Crafty
cannot stand excess body hair
i have a routine, but i can adapt when necessary
fiery temper.......although i have a very long fuse
very hurt by criticism
however, the biggest thing i note is the almost obsessive urge to please those around me, often to the point of neglecting my own needs. this of course creates extremely spoiled friends, children, partners, etc...hehehehe
difficulty disciplining children, check
perfectionist, check


and here's one that i haven't read yet, although in speaking with other submissives, i've found another trait seems to be common.....a history of physical and/or sexual abuse at a young age.....and before anyone blasts me for that, please understand it is MY experience, and i am NOT saying that everyone has experienced it.

thanks for the great thread
Tyd

lol tyd - i had wondered on the same topic as you suggest and brought it up in a thread you may or may not find interesting to read

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=14680 {What Makes a Submissive}

[Isabella King]

and here's one that i haven't read yet, although in speaking with other submissives, i've found another trait seems to be common.....a history of physical and/or sexual abuse at a young age.....and before anyone blasts me for that, please understand it is MY experience, and i am NOT saying that everyone has experienced it.Tyd

I think I've made my feelings known on this subject - but won't reiterate here.