tip ty..when you first login open the whos online option in another window and leave it running,it refeshes the page constantly and shouldnt log you out if theres a tech problem and you do get logged out as soon as the message comes up hit the back button on your browser then highlight and copy your text then when you log back in just re-post...ok techie lesson over lol.

yes i have an addictive personality which is different to OCD, and as you rightly said ty its not always drugs and drink but very often it can be gambling,shopping,cleaning anything really ( its a disorder not another way of saying your a drug addict etc) including sex,hence my high sex drive lol.
mine is co-morbid with the personality disorder i have (BPD) APD more often than not is co-existant with other disorders.

i s/harm too which is also addictive surpisingly which people are not always aware of it's particularly addictive for those who are 'cutters' like myself,although im doing well in that area for a while touchwood.

a high percentage of those with these type of disorders are submissive in nature although the BPD and the AP can also at times rear its ugly head and conversley have the opposite effect causing the most submissive of people to become intensley aggresive as these things can spiral vey quickly out of control mainly from fustration and confusion for a very brief period of time...which is perhaps why some subs (im NOT saying all) admit to being 'feisty' stubborn and vey strong willed on occasions.

im not saying this is true for everyone,not by a long shot and whether it is just coincidence i dont know but it certainly fits me.



here is a link which is quite informative for anyone interested,its a bpd link because these are where all info on personality types are generally clustered together and many of the symptons/criteria are similar finding anything re addictive personalitys in its own right is very difficult other than links for alcohol and drug addictions.

http://www.jwoodphd.com/borderline_p...order.htm#dibr

(scroll down a little)


if im not supposed to post it then im sorry for beaking any rules *bends over to recieve spanking*

am totally changing thread now sorry!