The wink was so the OP would know, I didn't mean my suggestion in a pissed off way but as just that, "a suggestive way"

Doesn't really matter, just thought she would get a better reaction since it asks nothing BDSM related.

Just so this isn't sidetracked too badly and gotten completely off topic now .......

I am not a religious person nor really consider myself very spiritual - I'm grounded in the reality of life and don't have the luxury of fantasizing about a 'higher' power will save me one day and all that. I suppose it would be an issue in a relationship if someone expected me to believe what they did in order to keep the relationship, that I just couldn't see happening.

So, yes, it would have an impact in that scenario.