To my mind, one of the perks of being a kinkster is to hear vanilla folk talk 'kinky.' I always listen, join in as much as I have to without giving myself away (a real art), store up the details and blab to my Master so we can have a good groan/laugh at 'them' and feel superior in our knowledge of the kinky underworld.

PS Sorry, not exactly 'equal rights for kinksters now', but at least I'm being honest.