What appalls me about this... is the number of subs who don't believe this is possible.
My approach utilizes the creation of the same conditioned responses, I forego the restrictions. Instead, I over stimulate and task my girl with many many orgasms. She must masturbate to just short of orgasm and hold herself there while she counts outloud, 10, 20, 30 seconds, legs trembling with the need to cum, and then she must cum on the count of 5. She must scream my name, imagining me watching as she comes.
Other times I get her hot and bothered online, and leave her the task of cumming 3-5 times in the next 5 minutes.
While initially she believed these goals impossible, she soon learned they were easy to attain... because it pleases me to know she is writhing in her bed or on the chair or in the shower...
I often request/expect an audio recording of the session be sent to me. Initially it embarrasses, but the desire to excel performing for me soon adds to the conditioning process.
When we meet in-the-flesh, we will play both hard and soft, but strewn throughout the days, I will whisper in her ear to cum... and there is indeed nothing sweeter than to see her eyes go round as her body responds, (I do seem to have excellent timing.)
At least one night I will have her tied while we sleep, including a crotch rope. (BTW, I highely recommend this if you enjoy the gentle motions a stimulated sub induces by your side, into the mattress. But I digress...) During the night, I whisper into her ear; my name, obedience, little nothings reminding her how horny the rope makes her. If at any point her eyes flutter open, I immediately order her, with a hard commanding voice, to cum... and she does.
By week end, her body does truly belong to me.![]()