Quote Originally Posted by darkgame View Post
More specifically,

How many people here actually live *everyday* a BDSM lifestyle vs playing out a scene on a weekend or every now & then?


This is something I'm quite curious about, obviously...but truely wondering if as many people as i think LIVE the lifestyle, as i think they do...



There's such a spectrum.

My primary relationship is long-distance, so when we're together (12 days! Yay!) I do mostly wander around naked in cuffs. It's His preference and my pleasure. We cram a lot into the days we're together and the D/s dynamic is prevalent. We also don't 'play' online in between visits, so the friendship aspect of our relationship is very strong.

It works really well for us, and enables us to be both good friends and very deeply D/s.