True Control

[JimmyJump]

So it is. But I am using it a bdsm context, as in giving pain to some who gets something out of it - the way as quite a number of dominants do.

I like inflicting pain. Not out of sadism, but because I get a kick out of the knowledge that the person I inflict pain to, is accepting that pain willingly.

You or anybody else, can call that Sadism. I don't.

Scrutinizing? Why? We do what we like with people who like it. That is enough.

Because Sadism in it's true form is dangerous. A sadist doesn't care about safe-words.

True, but although the word is the same, I think we can all tell the difference between Mengele and a Mistress whipping a willing slave.

Absolutely, that's why I'll never call a Mistress whipping a slave a sadist.

Pople in the lifestyle get to know themselves, and then they put a name on it. That is what I meant. What else can/should you do??

I'm not in the lifestyle. I'm in life.


JJ

[thir]

I like inflicting pain. Not out of sadism, but because I get a kick out of the knowledge that the person I inflict pain to, is accepting that pain willingly.

You or anybody else, can call that Sadism. I don't.

Each to their own, and so on.. you should just be aware that many people into bdsm use it in that way.


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I'm not in the lifestyle. I'm in life.
JJ[/QUOTE]

I'm with you there, actually. I cannot get used to that expression, yet use it to make myself clear, or try to.