Being a submissive AND a feminist?

[Guest 103013]

My partner is trying to come to terms with her radical feminist political outlook and her natural submissiveness.

She wants to be dominated by one person who she can trust completely. She is not submissive at all in the work or social world.

Just to me, just the way I like it ;-)

[fetishdj]

My partner is trying to come to terms with her radical feminist political outlook and her natural submissiveness.

She wants to be dominated by one person who she can trust completely. She is not submissive at all in the work or social world.

Just to me, just the way I like it ;-)

That seems to be a common attitude - one person you trust and respect, who has earned that trust and respect. I think we do need to do something about the public image of subs as 'sluts' who will submit to anyone who gives them a command - it is not true in so many situations.

I don't think a feminist who submits is any different to a strong man who submits. If you have to put on a strong front day to day, you sometimes need to submit - if only to relax a little while someone else makes all the decisions