Is changing oneself possible?

[lucy]

First of all, my apologies to restrainedNtrained for taking the liberty to quote you here (original thread: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=17969).
But i think it's a very interesting topic:

Submissives come in all different forms, you shouldnt have to change yourself to be with someone that goes for vanilla and for D/s.

Does that work at all? Is it possible to change oneself, if it is a "have to"? And if it is, what could be possible consequences?

Me, i don't think so, but i never tried and i hope i never have to. Because what restrainedNtrained stated in that other thread (and what i think is one of the greatest sentences i've read in quite some time ) is pretty exactly my feeling:

I refuse to change how i am, i like how i am, i like my personality.

Ok, i'm done with stealing for the moment