I'm thinking about buying a new set of lacy things and was wondering what pushes guys' dom buttons in the underwear department. For instance, I really like this bra and panties: http://www.fredericks.com/images/9/9...itm_a_6200.jpg in black, and these stockings: http://shop.trashy.com/modelpics/200x300/8002.jpg. I like the idea of all those stripes and straps all over me! But I don't want to look too severe and controlling, for obvious reasons. Thoughts?