I came across your community while surfing an (obvious) interest online. I was immediately struck by the range of experience and discussion and how well spoken (written?) most folks here are. I hope I can contribute some posts that you will enjoy as much as I have enjoyed yours.

A little about myself: I am a Male who enjoys the dom role. I am married. My wife's level of interest is nowhere near that of my mine. We engage in some B&D, much more B than D, but she has fairly conservative limits that I respect. Most of my involved experience in this area came from past relationships. I am no expert, but would not classify myself as a novice either. I do not treat B&D as a religion, just as something fun and exicting.

I look forward to being a part of your community. This is an area of interest that I really do not have anyone else to talk to about, at least on the level it is discussed here. Thanks to all who have already shared their thoughts, experiences and fantasies here - I look forward to reading more and contributing a few of my own.