Greetings to everyone,

This is my first time doing anything like this. It might be too late for me, but I'm giving it a shot anyway.

I've been married most of my life (17) to the same man and slightly over a year ago became a widow. My husband was 23 years my senior and very (let me emphasize that) VERY straight. I, on the other hand, discovered this type of activity when I was in my 20s. That makes almost 30 years of thinking about it, dreaming about it and never ever ever talking about it.

I'm new to computers, but so far have found it to be an invaluable tool in opening doors for me. I am hoping that this site will open still more doors. It would be great to meet people who have the same interests as I do and be able to openly ask questions about certain aspects of the "lifestyle."

By the way, I am a female submissive (as if the name isn't a clue). At least I think that's what I am. In the literature I've read in this genre, I've always imagined myself in the submissive role.

Anyway, I've taken the plunge.